Wednesday 1 May 2024

MAYDAY, MAYDAY - ENTITLEMENT AND OBLIGATION


“Workers of the world Unite! You have nothing to lose, but your chains!” The call remains the most reverberating takeaway from the communist manifesto of 1848. It inspired and continues to inspire millions across the world, in far more different ways than it was first intended to. “May Day” presents the best opportunity to evaluate where the slogan has taken us.  

I grew up hearing the musical version of the slogan, penned by the famous poet and lyricist Vaylar Rama Varma for the Malayalam hit film, Thulabharam. “Nashta peduvan vilangukal, kittanullathu puthiyoru lokam” (Nothing but the chains to lose, and to gain, a new world). The song played a significant role in irrevocably changing Kerala's socio-economic and political landscape. Almost all political meetings and processions, especially the left-leaning ones, played this song. There was a sense of romanticism attached to the movement. Many educated and influential people adopted communism and it took deep roots in Kerala. Overnight, tenants became owners without having moved even a little finger and many a landowner found their assets seized by the government and given to those who tilled the land till the day before. Social reengineering was quick at work! Those at the bottom rungs of the socio-economic ladder assumed a sense of entitlement. Anybody with land and property became the class enemy. It seemed they all had become rich at the cost of the poor. The society suddenly appeared to turn benign and undo wrongs committed over centuries. It benefitted many and for those who lost, nobody cared.  

My cousins and I grew up in a well-off household. Empathising with the underdog was romantic. Naive, insensitive, and ignorant of the significant loss of land suffered by the family, we walked around the house playing “jatha” (procession) holding banana leaves in place of flags, shouting slogans and singing Vaylar’s song. Looking back, I admire the generosity and tolerance of those who let us be, despite their painful losses.  

Things soon started to change. Collective bargaining, a tool that ensured just wages and prevented exploitation became a potent weapon for reverse coercion and exploitation. Employers found themselves at the mercy of employees. Employees organised themselves into trade unions and sought entitlements, often unbelievably impractical and sure to kill the establishment. Trade unions vied with each other to milk the last possible penny from the ‘class’ enemy. Investors and employers were no match to the might of the collective with mindless demands. Cashew and coir once the biggest employment avenues of the state withered. Industrial production dwindled. Fields that once reverberated with folk songs fell silent. Agriculture became unprofitable and unsustainable. It just withered. My father sold all his paddy fields and coconut farms. He continued cultivating tapioca but that too, he stopped because he got fed up with suffering losses. I grew up and happened to read George Orwell’s “Animal Farm” once again. This time I had a different understanding of the book and my society.  

Soon, jobs dwindled, domestic opportunities dried up and people started migrating for work. Luck favoured Keralites. Successive governments had focussed on education. Keralites had become literate. Nowadays, literacy is not even distantly related to rationality or education. When job opportunities were drying up at home, the Gulf boomed. It was a trickle in the beginning, then it became a torrent. The educated, the semi-educated, the literate and illiterate, skilled and unskilled, alike found jobs in the Gulf. People migrated for work in thousands. Remittance initially in drops, soon became a torrent.  

The lack of job opportunities did not initially worry people. There was money to make in the Gulf. Any job there was acceptable. Although remunerations started depleting people did not mind it because when it reached home, money multiplied as the rupee depreciated. The landscape soon changed. Construction boomed, and consumerism driven by inflows flourished.  The state now depends heavily on the neighbouring states for food and the East and Nort-East for labour. Unions still have their ways of making a killing. Gawking fees remain the norm despite denials. Kerala is now a confirmed consumer society. 

Now, jobs are hard to come by and youngsters are leaving the state for good. Every junction in the state has huge advertisements by various agencies promising different ways to get out of the state and country for good. Most of them, take loans mortgaging the only property to get out hoping to strike it rich. Many with good jobs and steady incomes also leave the country. Most end up at the bottom of society in an unfamiliar destination, all by choice. Sadly, ego does not allow them to return. Even if they want to, there is nothing worthwhile to return. 

In evolved societies, the public at large is aware of individual entitlements. It helps them demand their dues from the government and service providers. The public holds legislators to account. Back home, free ration, unemployment wages, and free medical care have made laziness lucrative. Everyone is vying to get what they feel they are entitled to.

Obligation is the other side of entitlement. When the sense of entitlement is not accompanied by a matching sense of obligation, problems will creep up. It applies to organised societies, organisations big or small, families and even interpersonal relationships. Look around. We can find fault lines within organisations, families and relationships. 

Most organisational problems can be pinned to imbalances between entitlements and obligations. Some people are seen to enjoy entitlements without matching obligations while some are more obligated than entitled. Trade unions and vested interests find space to exploit the afflicted and the organisational hierarchy. It is the same in relationships. In the initial phase, the partner who feels less entitled and more obligated may overlook the disparity and even suffer silently for some time. In the long run, it is bound to create strains that can seriously and adversely affect the quality of the relationship. The silence of the afflicted party worsens the fault line and leads first to dysfunctional and eventually broken relations.

Entitlement-obligation imbalances, over time, become exploitative. Respect for established societal norms vanishes, first behind the curtains and then openly. Might, individual or collective, reigns. Law and order problems increase, and so do corruption and coercion. In interpersonal relations, unmatched entitlement -obligations lead to diminishing respect, slowly leading to emotional and physical abuse. When entitlement without obligation is the norm, society will experience anarchy, organisations will be short-lived and interpersonal relationships doomed. 

Mayday, Mayday! 



 

15 comments:

  1. It is the national culture to feel entitled and it gets transferred across the International Boundaries.
    It is also how the children are brought up at home - the only job the kid did was to disturb the cushions on the couch.
    The parents meet all the requirements of their children - cellphones to motorbikes - all to feel that their children are not deprived of all worldly pleasures they missed while growing up.
    Children demand these and if refused - deal the parents with a suicide threat - and the parents too scared oblige.
    In Canada, children study beyond high-school by taking personal loans or working part-time. If Indian parents follow this, 90% of Indian colleges will close down.

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    1. Very true

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    2. Thanks a lot for the comment. You are right. children especially boys are pampered with all the means at the disposal of the parents. The "ruse" - "we suffered - our children should not suffer. most youngsters now the cost of everything but do not know its value. the result ? Their parents pay the price. When people get things which they don't deserve or haven't worked for, disaster is the only destination

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  2. Dear sir

     Absolutely true and reflects the state of the society. Nobody is willing to accept greater responsibility, and everyone is trying to demand more and more pay, perks, privileges and services.

    Entitlement and obligation are two sides of the coin. Logically, one cannot exist without the other. While justice and equality are corner stones, sense of responsibility and obligation are the very base on which these pillars stand.

    The sense of entitlement is not just limited to material objects and has seeped into moral and other domains, leading to the state of chaos, the society is experiencing today.

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    1. Thank you for the detailed comments. You are right. I covered the socio-economic and political aspects in detail and alluded to organisational and personal aspects. The dimension of morality you brought is so true. Morality is all about objective right and wrong. Unless we have a sense of obligation morality doesn't exist

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  3. The world is looking towards a change and a paradigm shift in which the current leadership who took over by hook and crook of Mayday politics face a social guillotine. The day is not faraway and we can smell the civil war.

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    1. Thank you for the detailed comment. Mass actions tend to have mindlessness as the driving force. The wily tend to exploit that too.

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  4. Jagajeeve,Pala1 May 2024 at 20:40

    Kerala is a great state often called a country owned by God's .The people of Kerala are divided on the lines of cast and religion which includes atheists . Ironically,even an atheist is named after a God .They prefer white collar jobs over Red or blue collar jobs. Majority are excellent human beings, lovable , helpful and trustable.But a miniscule are distinctly characterized by following traits.Taking bribe for any govt job is not considered a sin, needing a confession..They consider all as equals and cannot be expected to be respected.The majority being educated (not knowledgeable) are either employed or unemployed.Inquilab Zindabaad is the slogan of all and sundry.The main hobbies are gossiping and giving expert comments on anything and everything.God only knows from where the money comes, most have a sprawling house and one or more four-wheelers.Everyone driving on roads feels the road belongs to him as he has paid road tax for his vehicle.A commener has only two options for moving, loading and unloading his properties. Either pay as demanded or do it yourself for a price ( Nokku Cooli). Having a huge loan is a credit and any party which can write off their loans is most favourite.They expect huge salary and perks for minimal job but are bad pay masters.They will fall for anything given for free .John F. Kennedy’s historic words, “Ask not what your country can do for you – ask what you can do for your country,” is the most misunderstood quote as they feel it should have been otherwise and a grave mistake has been committed by this great American.The bourgeoisie is no more a social class that came to own the means of production during modern industrialization and whose societal concerns are the value of private property and the preservation of capital to ensure the perpetuation of their economic dominance in society .He is a good comrade,if he can hold a red flag and extend his arms for a human chain.Since none of us belong to this category,it is of no relevance to us.Happy May day.

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    1. Thank you very much. Hook or crook, as you said is the operative tool. We are staring at depleting good sense and growing parasitic behavior. we all know the body has a limit of tolerating parasites. unless appropriate interventions are done, doom is the destination

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  5. Your allegiance to your home state is so evident in your narration of the situation in such mild terms...in reality more often than not ...choicest expletives come to mind...fact is ..overall there has been so much of social reformation but that has made people more entitled...though the caretakers of socialism have now become corporates themselves...they are still regressive in their attitudes, when it comes to businesses, small ,medium alike...a kind of hypocritical approach.....intense political consciousness, which was the reason of progressive and inclusive development of the state once upon a time, has now become it's bane.

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    1. Thank you very much. The animal farm in real life!

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  6. Pradeep narayanan2 May 2024 at 17:55

    Well written and very true for Kerala as regards to the labour extremism. In Bengal it’s sheer laziness. Kerala as a state would have been so much ahead of time but for the labour union extremism. Now we are doing catching up acts

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    1. Thank you very much. We are NOT catching up. Its getting worse. Gorge Orwell was a visionary!!!

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  7. Good Morning Sir. Excellent Article Sir. Sheds light on the often-overlooked consequences of entitlement without corresponding obligations, both in organizational structures and personal relationships. It's a timely reminder of the importance of mutual respect and accountability.⁶

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    1. Thank you very much.
      Let those with ears hear and those with eyes see...

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