Unequally Equal

 

“Equal opportunity and unequal chances?” 

“No. I do not agree with you. Equal opportunity does not exist in reality,” said my daughter, an accomplished civil engineer. 

I was telling her about my talk at the Mahaguru Institute of Technology, where I had been invited to speak at the induction program of the 4-year engineering program. The invitation was extended to me by Dr Arun Jacob, Dean of Student Affairs. In the hall were about 300 people, the students who had secured admission and a few parents.

I always tailor my talk to suit my audience. My talk briefly touched upon creating brand value for the institute and how products often overshadow much-acclaimed brands. I also spoke about how to succeed in a competitive environment and brought up the subject of equal opportunity and unequal chance. FIFA World Cup was the example I chose.

The tournament, starting with the first qualifier played on 07 September 2023 and ending with the final on 19 July 2026 at MetLife Stadium in New Jersey, provided each team with equal opportunity to prove their worth against their adversary. The outcome of the contest depended upon how well each team utilised their skills to create chances at the opponent’s goal and capitalised on them. Foiling similar attempts by the adversary was equally important. Victory was as much about the chances created, spoiled, and foiled. Both teams contesting had equal opportunity to win, though victory invariably belonged to the team that capitalised on the opportunity.

“Maybe so in the tournament,” she said. “Do all students in the batch come from the same background? Do they all have the same support system? The same skill set? The same constraints? How can you call it equal opportunity when every contestant is unequal?” she asked.

The straight answer to all her questions was, “No.” Yet I am convinced that all the students in the Institute are presented with the same opportunity to start with. 

A dissection of the scenario, free from emotionally loaded perspectives, presents a different picture. Both teams get the same amount of time to play, the same football and the same pitch to play on. They even switch sides at half-time to offset any advantage one side of the court might have offered. Both teams play under the same set of rules and the same set of referees. Essentially, both teams get the same opportunity. Yet, punters give different odds because each team has a unique set of skills and expertise that increases or decreases the team’s chance of victory.

“Games may have the same set of rules and conditions, but in real life?” she asked. 

We are unique in every possible way. The socio-economic backgrounds that we come from, our aspirations, skill sets, value systems, and many other seemingly unimportant elements collectively define each of us uniquely. 

How can we ignore the constraints that challenge us? We are breathing, moving, and aspiring entities that cannot help but perceive everything through a template that lies deep within us. Yes, that is what results in each one of us possessing a unique skill set, competencies and stamina. It defines our attitude to life. Providing equal access to opportunity, irrespective of the socio-economic background of individual competitors, is very much bringing parity in conditions of competition.

True, it does not make everyone's chances equal. We all start from unequal starting lines, but when brought at par with each other for a purpose, the unequal backgrounds cannot dictate differing standards for evaluation. If everyone is assured of an equal outcome, where is the competition? An environment devoid of competition is detrimental to growth and progress. Competition is ruthlessly ingrained into the concept of survival and growth. Nature makes no excuses and accepts none. 

Equality is not making everything equal but ensuring that nobody is denied the opportunity to create their own chances of success. The difference, however, will always remain in the unequal ability to convert opportunities into favourable chances. Assured of equal outcomes irrespective of one's own contribution does not only kill competition but would destroy the concept of meritocracy, social order and the very society. 

A competitor must decide in which discipline he or she must compete. This is a personal decision based on one's capabilities. Similarly, students must choose their area of interest. A person with no interest in the field of Engineering should not, in the first place, be in an engineering class. Having secured admission to a specific stream of Engineering, and with equal access to opportunities the institute provides, it is in their interest to pursue it. What differentiates the top and the bottom in an academic evaluation is how much the students have invested in that pursuit. Intelligently compounded inputs derive exponential outcomes.

We are not equal.  We were never equal, and we cannot ever be equal. We cannot mathematically normalise people’s past to equality. What we, as a fair society, can do is to ensure that these differences do not prevent a person from pursuing a chosen career. However, having entered the competition, it is for that person to grab the opportunity to script success.

There have never been equal contestants. There will never be. Competitors come to the competition with different bags of background, aspiration, dreams, flaws and burdens. It can never be equalised. What we can do is to make the rules of competition the same for everybody.  Advantage or disadvantage of the competitors’ background is part of the competition.

A referee can only ensure a fair game. The outcome will depend on the team and the players. Perhaps that is what equality is all about. It is not about equal chance of winning but the equal opportunity to create the chances to win.

“Maybe, you are right,” said my daughter. “But I think the dice will remain loaded,” she added.

Maybe she is right too.




 

Comments

  1. Pradeep Narayanan15 August 2026 at 16:19

    In India the starting point itself is unequal with caste and religion determining the admission and not merit. Then pass percentages are also determined by caste and religion. So what is the equal opportunity that is being given. Certain section of students are given extra time to even pass. Second issue which we saw even during World Cup is that the referee can deny the deserving team a victory . So while equal opportunities may sound nice philosophically it’s implementation practically remains questionable

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    1. Thanks for the prompt response. You have a point. Life presents us with instances where fairness is hijacked. We live in times where preaching is preferred to practice. You have rightly pointed out how the concept of fair play is destroyed by vested interests. The world today is in chaos because rule-based order has been replaced by role-based order. When a society is divided on such criteria as caste, creed, religion, etc, opportunities are unfairly apportioned. Should there be reservation? If yes, how should it be administered? Are we looking for equality or trying to achieve equity? This is a subject for discussion, and not debate.

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  2. Equal opportunities, per se, is confined to different starting points in the journey of life that too for similarly placed small group of people. Another set of students beginning their studies in a premier could be better placed when they graduate in their engineering course. Chance by definition means a possibility and hence will remain unequal. Notwithstanding, individual success stories are often characterised by a very strong dream and the determination to achieve that despite absence of both opportunities and chance.

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    1. Given the opportunity, it is up to the recipient to make the Best out of what has been received. The problem is that the sense of entitlement of equal opportunity slowly becomes an entitlement of rewards even without a drop of sweat. Corruption and lack of empathy in public life are just two manifestations of such an attitude.

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  3. Yes,there should be equal opportunity for all. Yet, we women officers had to fight for years to secure this basic fundamental right—the Right to Equality

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    1. Nobody grants anybody their rights on their own volition. Unfortunately, that is the unchanging truth. In this particular case, change came much easier and faster than many such profound changes in society.
      The induction of women officers in the army or defence forces was an autonomous decision by the Government of India, and if I am right, against the wishes of many in the hierarchy. It came through without much struggle or mass movement, the least by any women's rights group. It was a huge progressive step in an otherwise patriarchal society. It took time for both the women who were commissioned into the forces and the forces themselves to adjust to the new. Grant of permanent commission was a foregone conclusion, according to me, even from the first day. It took time and the efforts of some valiant ladies. Everything in a society that finds comfort in the status quo will need someone to shake it up and take a new direction.
      Just for record's sake, I had gifted my cane to a Lady officer when I relinquished command, telling her to use it when she became a commanding officer. Permanent commission was not even on the horizon, then. I had promised to visit her when she was commanding. She laughed it off, saying the Army doesn't consider granting permanent commission to ladies. I told her that it would happen. A brilliant officer, she finished command recently. Unfortunately, I could not fulfil my promise.
      The day I was hanging my uniform, I told my staff officer that I would visit her when she commands a unit. I am making my travel plans now. I dont want to miss it.
      But remebber, "Rights come only with fights."

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  4. The distinction between equal opportunity and equal chances is very well brought out. Rules of the game can be made by anyone but contestants cannot be made identical in their abilities, resources or support systems.
    In real life, the “training” itself is often unequal. One student may have had better schooling, financial security, guidance, technology and family support, while another may have had to overcome significant disadvantages just to reach the same starting line. Perhaps the real challenge for society is to make the starting point as fair as reasonably possible, while accepting that the final outcomes will always be different.
    A very thought-provoking article.

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    1. Thank you very much. You have very much echoed my thoughts. In an unequal world, providing an equal playing field is in itself fairness. Results cannot be equal; that is an accepted fact.

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  5. Agreed that once at the starting line the rules of the game remain the same for every contestant, however each contestant has their own limitations and disadvantages and the system that evaluates them also brings in the weight of their own perspectives and prejudice.
    Yes, the opportunity exists for all, however the obstacles that one has to go through, the effort involved and the final judgement unfortunately still remains unequal.

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    1. Given the differential in the efforts required, the taste of success is different too. In a unique world of unique individuals with unique aspirations, outcomes will also be unique.

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  6. AP Radhakrishnan15 August 2026 at 19:13

    Entertaining yet cerebral dialogue with loose ends.

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    1. Thank you very much. The ends have been left loose and free for the Reader’s sake.

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  7. Interesting and thought provoking article. Absolute equality is not conceivable given the uniqueness of each human being. However, just and fair play is the maximum that can be achieved. Even to achieve that a lot of moral standards and impartiality of the referee are must.

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    1. There are two aspects to this article. The need to provide equal opportunity is the first, and utilisation of the chance to win is the second. The first is about fair play and concerns society, law-making and policy, etc., in fact everything about governance. This is where the "debatable" happens. We are living in times where, across the world, irrational stuff is marketed as rational and where people are made to turn on each other. Morality is now left to interpretation.

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  8. Good evening Sir.
    A fascinating take on equality, merit and opportunity. The distinction between giving everyone the same opportunity and expecting everyone to have the same chance of success is particularly interesting. The ending is perhaps the strongest part — sometimes the rules may be equal, while the dice still remain loaded. Definitely food for thought. Thanks Sir.

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    1. Thank you very much. Yes. seemingly eqaul, opportunities now come with dice laoded. That is what needs to be addressed.

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  9. Two students may receive the same education from the same teacher and be given the same question paper. Even if they write exactly the same answers, their handwriting, presentation and clarity may differ—and so may their marks.
    The same applies in the Army. Officers may receive the same training and be given the same opportunity to prove themselves, but their upbringing, environment, exposure, aptitude, personality and individual qualities will inevitably differ.
    Therefore, equal opportunity should mean bringing everyone to a fair starting point with the same training and standards—not guaranteeing the same outcome.
    Equality of opportunity is about opening the door equally; merit determines how far each person walks through it.

    Equal opportunity is a principle of fairness; equal performance is an empirical impossibility.
    Equal opportunity gives everyone the same starting line; merit decides who crosses the finish line first.
    By Jagajeeve, Pala

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    1. Thank you very much. Yes; you have briliantly captured the essence of the article. It is upto us to make the best out of the chance; yet its a society's character to provide a level playing field or equal opportunity. Social equity defines an advanced society. Social equity ensure fairness in access to opportunities, resources, rights and participation. this becomes more pronounced if historically structural disadvantages was a part of the society. The problem now is in how it is applied.

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